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Friday, August 26, 2011

Go West, Doctor!

OK- I am finally posting the details about our big news! Jon secured a position in Deer Park, WA (about 10 minutes outside of Spokane)!

Now that you know the news- here are the details. Starting in about April, we started contacting posible job opportunities in the Spokane area. We thought about other areas of the Northwest, such as Idaho, Oregon and Utah- - but just kept coming back to the fact that there are great job opportunities in the Spokane area- so WHY NOT go home? As we would pray and discuss the different things we would find, it just felt so right to go back to what we consider home. Our only regret is that most likely we wouldn't be doing the small town doctor gig that Jon was always interested in, and the loan repayments that would go along with that. We are so tired of moving around, we just felt that it was time to find a good place and STAY PUT indefinitely!

In May Jon went home for his Grandpa Marsh's funeral, and while he was there, made a few personal visits to clinics he was interested in. Providence Health, which was recruiting for several of the positions he was interested in contact him the week after his visit to set up interviews during a week in June. We were so excited- especially since they were going to fly us both out and put us up in the nicest hotel in town and pay for all of our expenses.

The next pictures are at the Davenport Hotel, which coincidentally my Grandparents stayed in once back in the forties when they were first married!


I also have to add- it was a beautiful hotel, but the famed great service wasn't all that great for us. They ran out of cribs and didn't tell us until we checked in, even though I had requested one in advance. I guess there was a wedding with tons of families that came in before us. I understood the reasons, but I just wish they had told us in advance so we could have borrowed one! It was a horrible night of sleep. There were a few other minor things that were promised and never carried out. All in all, it was cool to say now that I have stayed there- and again, it is beautiful. Since we have family in the area- we only stayed one night at the hotel, right before we flew home.

Jon ended up going for the week, and I joined him for the last three days so our kids would only need a couple of nights at friend's houses. Since Tyler was free to fly with us still, he came with me. Jon did most of his interviewing early in the week and after I arrived, we visited the two he was most excited about again, and had a realtor take us around to look at houses all over the city (which was so fun! We will be able to get a great house in the future in our price range!).

Bonus for me- I just happened to be in Spokane the day Brian flew home from his mission in Oklahoma!! We suprised him- it was so awesome to be with him the first few hours he was home. I had to laugh when one of the first things Brian said while we were out to lunch at Red Robin was "You talk really fast, Becky!". I guess I do- especially compared to the drawl of the southern midwest. I always just have so much I want to say! Ha Ha.


So, the top two opportunities Jon was interested in were with a private practice, where he would be salaried for the first year (guaranteed by Providence Health- who runs a few local hospitals), and then buy in as a partner. This suprised me, because I always thought a straight salaried position would be less stressful. As Jon interviewed, he realized that in the end he really did want to be a business owner and his own boss in a sense. The income potential and starting salary is much higher too. Truly, though, it wasn't the money that decided it for him, it was the fact that he would be building up his own panel of patients and would have the lifestyle he desires. One was a fast paced, very busy clinic in the heart of North Spokane, and the other was in the small town of Deer Park (about 10 minutes out of the Northernmost part of Spokane). Initally the interview he was most excited about was the one in Spokane- he had visited them when he was in town for the funeral. But, when he interviewed out in Deer Park, he fell in love with the idea of being a small town doctor, and the clinic itself. It wasn't quite so fast paced which fits Jon better (which means a bit of a lower income in the end, but after talking to the other doctors, it will certainly be good enough!!). The clinic also runs the urgent care clinic in the area, so he has the options of "moonlighting" for some extra income if he desires. Besides an awesome salary offer, along with moving expenses, a signing bonus, health insurance, etc . . . we also found out they are a qualified spot for the state loan repayment for primary care in "underserved" areas- - that is huge and over the course of 5 years will knock out a large portion of his student loans. It really seems like the perfect option for us.

Signing the contracts was interesting, though- kind of like buying a house- heavy. The funds to bring him in (the moving allowance, signing bonus, what they add to guarantee his salary) is acutally techincally a loan from Providence Health- but then is forgiven for the three years after that first year- as long as he stays in their service area. Makes sense to me- this money is how doctors are able to make it in a private practice opportunity before their patient base is built up. Anyway, all was in order and now the contracts are signed! Now we are just waiting for his Washington license to be approved. We don't anticipate any problems, but with what happened at CWFM last year- things aren't 100 percent sure. The fact that he has a Michigan full license and is successfully completing a new program means things should be just fine. At the same time, we aren't looking for a house or doing any planning until that license is in hand!

It was a whirlwind trip, but it was wonderful to see our families! We wouldn't have gotten to see Jon's family the whole time we lived in Michigan- I am so glad they at at least got to see Tyler (and Jon and me).



The day we flew home it was Father's Day! The kids and I had everything all ready for when we got home . . .



This is completely anti-climatic- but I also wanted to post a few pictures from Jon's residency "graduation" ceremony. Even though he doesn't get done until January, they wanted him to be a part of this because he won't be around for next year's! I have to say a few words about how incredibly grateful I am to Jon's program director- Dr. O'Connel at Mount Clemens RMC. Not only did he take a chance on Jon, but his encouragement and direction has given Jon the boost he needed to pick up after what happened at CWFM and move on in his career. Not only has he been able to move on, but Jon is thriving and learning here. His knowlege and skills truly put him ready to be a fully board certified doctor!


Tuesday, August 16, 2011

I love Book Club

There are few things in my life that I can call MY OWN. Book club is one of those few things- a night away from every day life where I can enjoy intellectual conversation with other women. I look forward to this night every month! Even if it is a book I really don't like, I still enjoy talking and analyzing the book. Mostly, though - it has helped me expand out of my usual books and I find I can enjoy a wide range of books. I do love to read- and especially listen to audio books (so I can get things done at the same time). No matter where I have lived I have been so grateful for book clubs and the friends I get to visit with!

Our current book club book:

The HelpThe Help by Kathryn Stockett

My rating: 5 of 5 stars


WOW- a must read!! I listened to this on Audio which added a whole extra element to the book. It gave me so much to think about when it comes to the women's side of the civil rights movement and what was happening in Mississippi in the early 60's. Despite it's serious theme and undertone- the story was extremely enjoyable. Just enough mystery, drama, and humor brought the story and setting to life. I can see why this is a best-seller. I am interested to hear what everyone else's views are on this book, black or white.



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Sunday, August 14, 2011

Church History in Ohio



The next step on our Church History tour was Kirtland, Ohio and the surrounding areas. I have to say Historic Kirtland was incredible- almost like Nauvoo. There are several historic buildings to see including the Newel K Whitney Store (where important things such as the School of the Prophets was held, and other things), homes, and the Ashery. As with the other sites, we loved the sister (or senior) missionaries who took us on the tour.







The Ashery:







The Isaac Morley Farm was another small stop that brought history to life for us. There isn't a building to tour, but it is the actual site where meetings took place and many saints gathered as they first came to Kirland. This forested path is the same road people traveled to come to Kirland. I could close my eyes and picture the horses and their riders seeking out the prophet Joseph.



The highlight of Kirland is the Temple, of course. Although it isn't owned by the Church anymore, is is owned by the Community of Christ (the reorganized Church) and it was facinating to tour their visitor center and see the history of the Temple since the main body of Saints left Kirtland. There is still a spirit about the Temple- it is the first Temple built in this dispensation- and it is still the original building. We didn't take the time to tour the actual Temple (with small children, it seemed inpractical), but very much enjoyed the visitor center and beautiful grounds. They even had some period clothing for the kids to try on and I got some awesome pictures in front of the Temple!













A stop at the Quarry where the stone was cut for the Temple was also pretty cool . . .




Last but not least, as we were leaving to drive back to Michigan, we stopped at the John Johnson farm (about an hour or so south of Kirland), where the prophet Joseph lived and worked part of his time in Kirtland. Besides the beautiful scenery, this site was amazing to see because most of the building is original, and many of the same furnishings are also in the house. The Spirit was very strong.




This room is where Emma and Joseph were sleeping with their twins when a mob came and dragged Joseph out and tarred and feathered him:





Overall a wonderful, whirlwind trip- - and such a great experience for our family- something we would never been able to do if we didn't live in the Eastern part of the United States. Again, one of those hidden blessings that came from something that was seemingly so bad- having to move away from family and friends in Washington. So much has happened this year- wonderful things that have not only helped my husband move forward in his career, but experiences our family needed to have together. I am so grateful for all the Lord has done to watch out for us.

Church History Upstate New York

The next leg of our Memorial Day weekend trip was the Ohio and New York state Church history sites. What a wonderful experience to be able to take our children to see some amazing church history sites. I can't say they were truly reverent, but I think the older ones got the jist of what they were seeing! I didn't expect to have a deep spiritual experience, with small children in tow- but to be in the places that amazing events took place always sends something to the heart. Now I can say that I have seem almost all of the historic church history sites- including Nauvoo, everything in Utah, the Missouri sites, and even the Mormon Batalion Historic Visitor Center in San Diego (which was only last year!) Now we can add the Ohio and New York sites- from one side of the country to another in just a year or so.

Anyway- Palmyra was our next stop.

The Hill Camorah visitor center and monument (with a view from the top of the hill where they have the pageant):





The Temple (which is right by the Smith Farm, and right down the road from where we stayed!




The Smith Log Home:



The Smith Frame Home:






The Sacred Grove was the best part of our visit. The quiet, cool woods were so peaceful and we could sense the importance of what happened there. Again, being there with small children meant for a different kind of experience- not an intense spiritual experience, but a sense of "this is right- this is where we are supposed to be- and this IS what we believe". Actually, as a mother of small children, this seems to be the kinds of experiences I have most of the time. I learned that at this season of my life- this is exactly what I need. It doesn't have to be the intense spiritual experiences of my youth- just enough to know that my chosen path is the right one and the peace that comes with that. Anyway, it felt like we had left the world and it was just our family- the people I most love in this world.

Outside the grove:



Inside the grove:

I was so proud of Cynthia. The first thing she did when she entered the grove was find a nice bench and pray.




Enjoying the scenery at the Smith Farm and outside the Sacred Grove, I was amazed at the beauty of this world, and of the Gospel.



In the main city of Palmyra, we visited the Book of Mormon Publishing site- where the Book of Mormon was very first printed. The visitor center is incredible, actually, with the historic printing presses and store front, and even original LDS artwork and other historical artifacts.






Besides a little side trip to the Rochester Science Center (our Detroit Science Center pass got us in for free) for a few hourse while Jon stayed behind for Tyler to take a nap, our other stop of the area was the Peter Whitmer Log home. This is the site where the church officially was organized on April 6, 1830.

A few pictures at the Science Center:



The Peter Whitmer Log home and visitor center: